Why do men like to have sex with a woman's ass?

Because it’s fun. That’s it. It’s enjoyable and feels good. It’s really not rocket science.

I now have a lover who is a passionate and enthusiastic fan of anal sex, and she has an ass that is…um, extraordinarily accommodating and a great deal of fun. So, for the first time in my life, I have a partner I actively enjoy giving anal sex to.^3

1. Yes, I prefer underscore_notation to camelCase. It’s easier to read. Change my mind.

What is so great about Jiraiya?

The answer to basically any question of the form “why do $people like $sex_thing”^1 is “because it’s fun.”

3. Yes, this does mean I’ll do things during sex I don’t necessarily actively enjoy myself. I think one of the hallmarks of a good lover is willingness to do things that get your partner hot even if they don’t necessarily rev your motor.

Why?

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

2. Giving, anyway. I’ve always been a big fan of receiving, which is why almost all my lovers have been quite skilled with a strapon, and I even own a patent on a new type of strapon.

Throughout my life, until just recently, I’ve had girlfriends who enjoy receiving anal sex, and I’ve always been willing to do it, though I’ve never been a huge fan; too much work for something I personally didn’t find particularly interesting.^2

Why do men like to have sex with a woman's ass?

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